If you’re here, probably you want to inculcate love of Allah in young hearts. You are aware about WHAT should be done, but you may be wondering HOW to do it. To understand how to commence the dialogue about Allah, as a Creator, His Will, His characteristics and ultimately His instructions – understanding your child, his/her development, and needs will help you take that step in a way that you seem fit. Only you know your child best and hence you are the best barometer for this. So your own love and knowledge of your Rabb goes a long long way.
Following are some of the things that can help you start the process in shaa Allah:

1) Introduce Allah to them through His names

Remember that love of Allah is already a part of our fitrah (innate nature). You simply have to nurture it in your child and let it grow – so it’s not as difficult as you may think it is. You got this!
Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) said: “No child is born except on Al-Fitra (Islam) and then his parents make him Jewish, Christian or Magian, as an animal produces a perfect young animal: do you see any part of its body amputated?” Then he rec ‘The religion of pure Islamic Faith (i.e. to worship none but Allah), The pure Allah’s Islamic nature with which He (Allah) has created mankind. Let There be no change in Allah’s religion (i.e. to join none in Allah’s worship). That is the straight religion; but most of men know not…” (30.30)” [Bukhari]
You can take that further by introducing them to Allah’s names and attributes. Start with the most common names like: Ar-Rahman (The (most) Merciful), Al-wadood (The (most) Loving)…Here is a list of names for you to choose which ones you’d like to introduce first according to your child’s age and level of understanding.

2) Teach them Husn-az-zann billah (Allah loves them)

I know there’s a famous hadith of Allah loving us more than 70 mothers, but I couldn’t find the reference anywhere so I’ll skip it to be on the safe side – the following hadith though, tells that Allah’s mercy is much more than that Alhamdulillah.
Narrated Abu Huraira: I heard Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) saying, Allah divided Mercy into one hundred parts. He kept ninety nine parts with Him and sent down one part to the earth, and because of that, its one single part, His Creations are merciful to each other, so that even the mare lifts up its hoofs away from its baby animal, lest it should trample on it.” [Bukhari]

3) Talk to them about Jannah (heaven)

Have you ever seen a child’s eye light up when you talk about jannah? It’s like their dream play land. For me and my 3 year old, this has become a bedtime routine – talking about jannah after reciting our duas etc. (BONUS: she WANTS to go to sleep because of that 😅 although, let me warn you, you may have to hop into bed an hour or two before their actual bedtime, because they can go on and on and on…)
The Prophet, said, “Allah said, ‘I have prepared for My pious worshipers such things as no eye has ever seen, no ear has ever heard of, and nobody has ever thought of. All that is reserved, besides which, all that you have seen, is nothing.” Then he recited:– ‘No soul knows what is kept hidden (in reserve) for them of joy as a reward for what they used to do.’ (32.17)” [Bukhari]
Since our brains can’t see the bigger picture sometimes, we wonder where Allah’s mercy is when we see injustice in the world. We blame Allah for not “doing” anything. So having a strong concept of Jannah will actually help kids (and also you) get by the difficulties of this dunya sometimes. Because this dunya isn’t a perfect place, but a Perfect Lord has created a perfect place called Jannah. And there, they can have everything they want. They can be anything they want, meet anyone they want, see anything they want to see, eat anything they want to eat. And the list goes on…

4) Help them love Salah

(a reminder that calls us towards the connection with our Lord 5 times a day)
Since this is done 5 times a day (and your child probably watches you 4 times praying – in case they’re not up with you at the time of fajr to “help” you pray 😅), salah is a perfect way to show your child how you communicate with your Creator.
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, “Seven (people) will be shaded by Allah by His Shade on the Day of Resurrection when there will be no shade except His Shade…(one of them being)…a young man who has been brought up in the worship of Allah…”[Bukhari]

5) Make dua to Allah with them

You know the time when your child is hurt (physically or emotionally) and they are at their most vulnerable stage? The times when they crave your love and hugs? That time right there is gold because not only does your child want more love but they want hope in stressful times too, and dua is a tangible way of that hope and connection.
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “The closest that a person can be to his Lord, the Mighty and Sublime, is when he is prostrating, so increase in supplication then.” [Nasa’i]
And don’t we all love those who are there for us in the time of need? Dua can make you feel that with Allah. So hug them close, carry them in your lap and raise your hands with them to make the dua they want. (P.S. if they don’t want to, no need to force them. Try doing it in happy times and in shaa Allah they’ll be more willing to try it in their vulnerable times).

6) Help them notice blessings of Allah and say Alhamdulillah

I loved what Zanib Mian wrote in her blogpost: “Basically, make, “See! Allah loves you!” the most commonly used phrase in your household. This, of course, is much simpler to explain when joyous things happen, but remember to use the concept with the smallest of things, to encourage gratefulness. It’s harder to explain when not-so-joyous things happen – like falling down. In these instances, help them to see that it’s all part of Allah’s plan and they may have been saved from a bigger not-so-joyous thing happening!”
You may journal gratitude with them. Here are a few shots of what my sister (co-founder of AYEINA) did with her 5 year old.
Comment below as to what worked with your child while nurturing Allah’s love in their little hearts? 💖

1 COMMENT

  1. Alhamdulllilah, very beautiful mashallah. This is not only beneficial for children but also for new Muslims. I remember when I converted many years ago, I found the children books and resources really helped understand a lot.

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