“And We have already sent to nations before you, ; then We seized them with poverty and hardship that perhaps they might humble themselves .” [Qur’an – 6:42]
The only feeling I had was of a trembling heart, as my eyes blinked themselves to life with a still body. I looked at my husband with a questioning glance as he woke up with a feeling much like mine. He gave my fear an approval. All I could do was to stay still without even a hint of movement but my lips trembled with the shaking of Earth. They moved themselves with the remembrance of Allaah out of fear of unexpected. I looked at my girls and found them fast asleep. After the earth gained composure, I found a chance to make myself mobile. Later, I couldn’t sleep. Till now…
As the quake lulled itself to sleep, it left me insomniac. My gaze was lost into the void. I showered myself with endless “what if’s” – all revolving around: what if I would have opened my eyes to the most apparently-easiest-questions of munkar and nakeer? And what did I do so far to answer them easily? Did I even live by those questions? There is so much on my to-do list which was urgent and needed yet I piled them up for a future that is not approaching any sooner? And what not…
I then realized how severely negligent we are in terms of our obligations and responsibilities. Such incidences are a reminder for us. Alhamdulillah! Every trial is a test for a believer. It makes us better Muslims till the time we are still taking breaths of life and sanity. As The Messenger of Allaah (PBUH) said:
“How wonderful is the affair of the believer, for his affairs are all good, and this applies to no one but the believer. If something good happens to him, he is thankful for it and that is good for him. If something bad happens to him, he bears it with patience and that is good for him.” [Muslim].
What to do when natural disaster strikes?
Few possible recommendations on occasions like these; based on the acts of our beloved Prophet (PBUH), sahaaba, taabioon and the scholars of the Ummah:
1. Make Du’a
Offer dua to ask for mercy and help from Allah, so that He might divert this calamity from the people. Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said, when the wind blew strongly:
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ مِنْ خَيْرِهَا وَخَيْرِ مَا فِيهَا وَخَيْرِ مَا أُرْسِلَتْ بِهِ وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّهَا وَشَرِّ مَا فِيهَا وَشَرِّ مَا أُرْسِلَتْ بِهِ
“O Allah, I ask You for its good and the good of what is in it and the good of what it is sent with, and I seek refuge in You from its evil and the evil of what is in it and the evil of what it is sent with.” [Muslim]
Shaykh Ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: “What must be done at the time of an earthquake or other calamity, or an eclipse, strong wind or flood is to:
- repent to Allaah, may He be glorified
- beseech Him and ask Him for well-being
- to remember Him a great deal and ask Him for forgiveness”
When there is an eclipse (like we had at the time of earthquake), it is recommended to pray Salaat-ul-Kusoof (2 raka’ah prayer in congregation) – It is permissible to pray it individually, as with all other naafil prayers. However, praying it in congregation is better:
Narrated Abu Musa: The sun eclipsed and the Prophet (ﷺ) got up, being afraid that it might be the Hour (i.e. Day of Judgment). He went to the Mosque and offered the prayer with the longest Qiyam, bowing and prostration that I had ever seen him doing. Then he said, “These signs which Allah sends do not occur because of the life or death of somebody, but Allah makes His worshipers afraid by them. So when you see anything thereof, proceed to remember Allah, invoke Him and ask for His forgiveness.” [Bukhari]
Show compassion to the poor and needy, and give charity to them, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
“…Be merciful on the earth, and you will be shown mercy from Who is above the heavens…” [Tirmidhi]
It was reported that when there was an earthquake, ‘Umar ibn ‘Abd al-‘Azeez (may Allaah have mercy on him) would write to his governors telling them to give in charity.
And if your area gets affected by a natural disaster, then please volunteer as there is no replacement to compassion given to those in need. Remember, even smiling is sadaqah.
It took a while for my eyes to adjust to an intact ceiling, thanking Allaah I’m not smothered underneath a rubble because I definitely heard the quakes threatening to crack it in half. Yet I’m still alive and breathing. I still have time. So I bend these sinful knees before my Lord amidst forgiveness and gratitude, regrets and promises…
How to Talk to Kids about Natural Disasters?
Kids are curious beings and you may be bombarded with loads of questions when they see something like this or experience it. The video (animation) below can be a great way to introduce the concept of earthquake (I cut out the music part of the video from the start and the end in the embedded version here).
1) Connect them to Allah
If you have kids, they may be scared. Let them express themselves after the tremors go away. Talk to them about it. Use the language children will understand. Connect them to Allah with the power of dua and positive hope (husn-az-zann). Young children need simple information they can understand and need to be reminded that they are safe. Older kids will have questions (loads of them) and will need an opportunity to express their range of emotions.
2) Keep it Positive
Monitor and limit television and news. Developmentally inappropriate information and overexposure to news of the event can cause more anxiety or fear, particularly in young children. Adults also need to be careful of the content of conversations that they have with each other in front of children. Tell your child that the situation is not permanent, and provide physical reassurance through time spent together and displays of affection.
3) Teach them Survival Strategies (Before, During & After the Incident)
Find safe spots in your home. Identify and discuss safe spots in each room of your home so that you can go there immediately if you feel an earthquake – such as under a sturdy desk or table, or next to an interior wall. If inside, Drop, Cover, and Hold On. With one hand hold on to the object and with your other arm protect your head and neck. If outside, find an open spot. Find a clear spot away from buildings, trees, streetlights and power lines.